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Planning for the Distribution of Personal Items: Sentimental vs. Monetary Value

Loune-Djenia Askew, Esq.

Jul 10, 2024

Personal items, often with sentimental value, need careful consideration. Planning for their distribution guarantees your wishes are honored and reduces potential conflicts among your loved ones. Here are some tips to help you.

Personal items, often with sentimental value, need careful consideration. Planning for their distribution guarantees your wishes are honored and reduces potential conflicts among your loved ones. Here are some tips to help you. 


Sentimental Value

Sentimental items are those that hold emotional significance, such as family heirlooms, photos, or personal letters. Their value lies in the memories and emotions they evoke, rather than their market worth.


Monetary Value

Items with monetary value include valuable jewelry, collectibles, or antiques. These items have a clear market value and can be sold or appraised for their worth.


Make a Detailed Inventory

Start by making a comprehensive list of all your personal items. This inventory should include both sentimental and valuable items. Detail their significance and value, and consider who might appreciate or benefit from each item.


Communicate Your Wishes

Discuss your wishes with your family. Explain why certain items are important to you and how you would like them distributed. Include personal items in your will. Be clear about who should receive each item. This legal documentation will give clarity to your executors and beneficiaries.


Consider a Memorandum of Personal Property

A memorandum of personal property is a separate document that lists your personal items and their intended recipients. While not legally binding, it can be referenced in your will. This allows you to update your wishes without altering your entire will.


Appraise Valuable Items

For items with significant monetary value, obtain a professional appraisal. This provides a clear understanding of their worth and helps prevent disputes among beneficiaries over the value of each item. If you have multiple valuable items, consider equalizing their distribution among your beneficiaries. For example, if one beneficiary receives a high-value item, others might receive an equivalent amount in cash or other assets.


Be proactive in addressing potential conflicts. Consider the emotional attachments your beneficiaries might have to certain items. Try to distribute items in a way that honors these connections and reduces the potential for disputes.


For more information, contact our office at Askew & Associates, P.A. by calling 954-546-2699.


Disclaimer: this blog post is not intended to be legal advice. We highly recommend speaking to an attorney if you have any legal concerns.


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